Nothing astonishes men so much as common sense and plain dealing. — Ralph Waldo Emerson

And a partridge in a pear tree …

December 13th, 2011 by Elisabeth

When someone is asking me that they wish to commingle with another man in tow, well, it’s just not that easy to arrange and right now, I’m feeling rather muffed that I’m being asked to do this and the expectation is that this is just an easy thing to accomplish.That was last week. But today is a different day and I would like to discuss how some fantasies are arranged.I’m going to use this one client as an example. He’s an older man and I sincerely do like him. But he REALLY wants to see me when there is another guy there that they can exchange well … fellatio with each other. And although this is arguable, he’s really not gay and just barely bisexual. He just likes a little diversion sometimes. But it’s NOT just the male to male oral sex that he’s looking for. He also wants to see me enjoy intercourse with this man.Do you KNOW how difficult it is to line up a man that not only will allow that type of activity but also has the ability to rut me into the ground and is over 55 or so? It can happen but my little black book isn’t that diversified, yet.I don’t mind trying to set something up. But this is REALLY a hard thing to accomplish.So with my example, he’s from out of town. Second, when setting up something like this, the other man has to be close to his age (or that is best) and close to his stature. This just works best. You don’t want to get two guys together who are complete opposites in age and decorum. It just doesn’t work out. I refer to this as being equally yolked.THEN, it’s difficult to find a man who is a willing participant who can meet me at such and such time.So not only do I need to find a willing partner who likes to have a little back and forth with another man in tow, I need to find someone who can meet when this client is in town and at the time when he can get together.See how this is working out?So … when a client asks me to set up a cuckhold situation, or another man in the room, or a man who wants to have his cock attended to … these certain parameters just don’t come knocking at MY door. I have to search for it!And often, even the men who are interested in such a thing will say no for a variety of reasons.The other week, a man offered to come over to just swive me silly while another listened. Then, he had to cancel at the last minute because of work. Then, the other one canceled because he didn’t wish to see just me. He wanted the “experience”.So there you have it. Tra la la la la la. And a partridge in a pear tree. If you’re wanting to experience all twelve days of Christmas with me during a short one hour appointment, it would be nice to consider the work and effort that it takes to accomplish what you’re seeking. Offering a bit more of an incentive would be nice, too.And acting disappointed that it’s almost an impossibility to actually create these settings at the last moment … well, I’m trying to illuminate your mind during the holiday season.It takes a special person to even be able to orchestrate such an event. I’m that person. But often even I cannot create that holiday miracle that so many are seeking.So this isn’t a complaint about trying to create such situations. It’s to let men know who are reading this that I do try. And will keep trying.In conclusion, if you’re the type of man who wouldn’t mind being watched while having sex with me, or wouldn’t mind receiving oral attention from another man or would like to do it, wish to be paraded around a room with a leash on your cock or you wish to tap dance on a hot plate while singing “Yankee Doodle Dandy”, please keep me in mind and contact me.I might just have a deal for you! But give me SOME time for the set up and don’t be overly disappointed if I cannot find the perfect orchestration for your fantasy. Besides, what’s in your head is rarely going to be what you imagined if it becomes reality.My suggestion is to allow us to come up with a great fantasy together that creates some of the aspects of your fantasy and the some ideas of my own.