1. If you’re a country boy, please do not meet me, throw your cowboy hat across the room, start ripping off your clothes while shouting, “Heifer, you’re mine.” And then doing a little country jig before throwing yourself on the bed. During this one experience I did half-way expect him to pull out a lasso and rope me. The only reason that this experience actually turned out so well is that he was gorgeous, had a very large penis, was exceptionally sweet and welded his weapon well.2. If you’re a huge man, please do not go under the idea that if you see a larger escort then the experience will be better. Maybe it will and maybe it won’t. What would be best is if you choose a lady that fits your needs personality wise AND what you prefer physically. Nothing is worse then to be with an exceptionally rotund man and he’s an inexperienced lover and attempts the missionary position. It rarely works. It’s like two beach balls bouncing off each other.3. I just wasn’t meant to be lifted up and tossed over a man’s shoulder. Although I have often fantasized about the “Me Tarzan, You Jane” scenario, I have a low center of gravity and this was true 80 pounds ago. The few times this has happened and I was tossed up over the shoulder like a bag of flour, I certainly admired the man’s strength. I would think that this would be appealing for a guy to do with a petite lady…and goodness, wish it could happen here. But please don’t do it. Besides, you’ll hurt your back.3. Please do not pick a larger provider because you think that she can “take it” better then a smaller one. This statement it twofold for now: One, no, you cannot be rougher, squeeze harder or bite harder because we’re bigger and you think that we can take it. And two, if you have a preternaturally large cock, please do not see us because you believe that we can better accommodate your girth. I have known very small ladies who have the female equivalent of the Grand Canyon down there. The size of a woman’s vaginal cavity has little to do with her weight.The above being said, and I believe this will apply to everyone though, please be willing to take direction from a provider. And since I’ve only been a larger provider I really don’t know if a “spinner” has had logistical problems with men. I have. You know, fitting in part B to part A. Generally, if you’re seeing someone who is an experienced lover then this situation is less likely to happen. But if the situation is going South (and we all know that it does at times) chances are pretty good that she can turn it around. Of course, in certain circumstances the reverse can be true as well. Isn’t sex complicated?