Pain, Orgasm, Violet Wands & Nuru
Over the past two years my sexual repertoire has been enhanced by attending different types of workshops that deal with alternative sexuality and also, just having interesting lovers that like to experiment.
I’ve had limited play, wish for more, with Nuru gel (have a great messy mat!) and also just purchased a violet wand with several attachments.
Although I’ve never been overly fond of toys, thinking in fact that I’m just a big toy myself and a man’s body is MY toy 
, I’ve still collected a variety of well made and fun toys but mostly with the man in mind. Wink!
So all of this has lead me to think of how an orgasm can be made more intense and enjoyable. A good amount of teasing and denial can certainly make a difference in the quality of an orgasm.
But what about pain? Providing severe pain right at the point of orgasm? Perhaps some clover clips on the nipples that are taken off at the point of explosion? Ruining an orgasm the good old fashioned way? Not even allowing one at all and the friend leaving with a chastity device on with me holding the key?
Although in times past, I’ve often written that I’m vanilla and I STILL AM OFTEN VANILLA BASED and that is a complete joy within itself .. a rich vanilla with different types of exotic sprinkles, actually (and this might be an age thing) I’ve really started to enjoy this exploration.
If you’re interested in joining me on the expedition, just let me know. There is always space on the ride!
Elisabeth
September 29th, 2011 at 10:56 pm
Oh, honey!
Pain and pleasure are definitely my forte’. We should definitely compare notes.
I love your blog by the way. You have a more softer, feminine, poetic way with words.
Taking notes,
Tiff
October 5th, 2011 at 12:06 pm
Tiffany,
Thanks for responding and I’m very fond of your blog as well!
Yes, let’s compare notes.
In terms of my blog, well it’s evolving. I still haven’t found my voice and often, it’s difficult to concentrate long enough to go into great detail with regard to some of my thoughts and opinions!
That’s certainly reflected in my words! But … it’s a joy to be able to just explore and create messages for others to read and interpret. But you already know that, don’t you?
Hugs,
Elisabeth