Conversations With Richard

So there I was butt naked between the legs of a man who had this gorgeous cock and a really handsome face. Not cute. Not adorable. Handsome. Alpha male. Hard, willing and pushy.

I was just about to fall in love with him.

And I mentioned that he was really handsome. He said to me, with a slight sneer, “You’re bullshitting me”.

This probably isn’t something to say to a woman, any woman, who has just had your cock between her teeth but at any rate, it was rather offensive. Because … he had effectively called me a liar.

But I was feeling expansive and positively happy, so it was as good as time as any to teach him a little bit about me … and the topic.

I suggested that it wasn’t proper to tell a naked girl, especially after you had already paid her, that she was a liar. He tensed up a moment and then started to listen. It was a little lighthearted you see and he was an Alpha type, so he felt in control. He shouldn’t have though. I had him by the balls. Literally.

So as I’m slightly worshiping his cock with my hands and a little teasing I taught him that the reason why I didn’t lie was pretty simple. I have complete short term memory loss. He started to laugh. He was paying attention to me now.

I generally do not lie to a man about his attributes or positive characteristics. With my inability to remember lies six weeks, three months or any number of days (minutes?) from the moment that I might have said something just isn’t worth it.

So if I say that your cock is a piece of art, then it is. If I say that you have pretty eyes, they’re going to be pretty to most. If I like that particular blue shirt that we’re wearing, just wear it again. I’ll probably still like it.

Life is just easier when you don’t lie about the small stuff. Or really the big stuff. But when you’re being intimate with a man, it makes sense to me to be myself and that includes picking out characteristics that are appealing to the individual that I’m with and making comments about those.

There isn’t a bucket list of “compliments” that women that I know give. If someone tells you you’re good in bed, well you probably are. If someone doesn’t comment about your oral skills, there might be a reason why she didn’t. Don’t read into non-comments too much but certainly don’t discount immediately the nice things that women will mention to you just because she’s in the sex industry.

Lecture over. Any questions?

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